I can’t remember the first time I heard about cancer or understood what it was. I think it was something that diffused its way into my consciousness at some point even if I didn’t really understand what it was or what it meant. I knew it was bad and that it was some sort of illness but that was it really.
When I was in middle school, probably about age 11 or 12, I remember those conversations between mothers at the school gates and conversations about one of the girls in my class. Beverley Ferguson. Again it didn’t really register. Beverley was in my class and was often missing from school. And then she wasn’t around for ages. She had cancer.
I have no idea what sort of cancer it was or what treatments she went through. I was too young to understand and to young for it to mean anything. So I have no idea what treatments she had or what she went through. I know it went on for a while and I remember her coming back to school for a while, presumably in some sort of remission. She stood and watched as we did long jump outside and I couldn’t help but look at the scars on her neck and on her trachea when I was talking to her. They were scary!
Beverley Ferguson died on Christmas day. She apparently asked her parents to have a sip of wine to celebrate Christmas and then passed away that afternoon. I’m guessing she was 12 years old.
I’ve thought about Beverley’s parents in the past as she was an only child. When other people her age have milestones like special birthdays, going to university, first job and getting married, they must think about these events from time to time and wonder what could and should have been. What sort of person would their daughter have grown into? What would she have done with her life? Would she have married? Would they have had grand-children?
People shouldn’t have to go through this. Parents shouldn’t have to bury their young children. Lives shouldn’t be destroyed and ruined through cancer. Let’s stop this happening to other families and get some money raised for research.
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